Laura Slade Wiggins: January 2013

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Love and kindness

Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver. -

The best and most beautiful things

The best and most beautiful things in life cannot be seen, not touched, but are felt in the heart. -

If you’re alone...

“If you’re alone, I’ll be your shadow. If you want to cry, I’ll be your shoulder. If you want a hug, I’ll be your pillow. If you need to be happy, I’ll be your smile… But anytime you need a friend, I’ll just be me.” ~ Unknown

Find a guy who...

Find a guy who doesn’t care if you snort when you laugh …or chew with your mouth open or closed… sing off key… cry at the movies, or act like an insane person… and all it does is make him love you even more… Unknown

I want to be the ONLY woman in my man’s life

I want to be the ONLY woman in my man’s life .I want to be the ONLY woman who touches his heart and makes it skip a beat. I want to be the ONLY woman whose arms make him just melt. I want to be the ONLY woman with whom he feels complete. I want to be my man’s best half…His SOUL MATE

Treat her like a Queen

Treat her like a Queen and she’ll treat you like a King ~ treat her like a game and she’ll show you how it’s played ~ Unknown.

Someone who really loves you

Someone who really loves you down to your toes, will see what a mess you can be, how moody you can get and how hard you are to handle BUT still wants you in their life and cant imagine a day of life without you!

There was never a definition for a perfect relationship

There was never a definition for a perfect relationship. We all have to make compromises in order to make our relationships perfect. You have to give up your ego and stubbornness in order to strengthen your bond with your partner. You have to prove that the love you have for each other is bigger than the small differences which can be overcome easily. You just need to have the willingness to make it happen.

Life Is Like A Camera Just Focus On What's Important

Life Is Like A Camera Just Focus On What's Important capture the goodtimes devolop from the negatives and if things don't turn out just take another shot.

Let's Fall In Love

Let's Fall In Love And Make Them Hate Us.

That moment when you realize that your living the twilight dream. When all else fades and the one person who you’ve been waiting for your whole life finally comes around and claims you as theirs.

Legend Says When You Can't Sleep At Night

Legend Says When You Can't Sleep At Night, it's because you're awake in someone else's dream

Learn To Love Who You Are

Learn To Love Who You Are Even As Newer Versions Of You Emerge.

Learn To Love What You've Been Taught To Fear

Learn To Love What You've Been Taught To Fear.

It is only the beginning , the beginning of love that would be burning , the proceeding would be just a long dry walk to cross. be there and you will be fruitful.

Learn To Appreciate The Rainbow

Learn To Appreciate The Rainbow After Cursing The Rain. It's Just Like Loving Again After Experiencing The Pain.

Laughter Is Timeless

Laughter Is Timeless, Imagination Has No Age And Dreams Are Forever.

From the first sight of you I knew my knees would buckle .

Just When The Caterpillar Thought Its Life Was Over

Just When The Caterpillar Thought Its Life Was Over... ... it became a butterfly.

I've Spent Most Of My Time

I've Spent Most Of My Time Catching My Breath Letting It Go.

To love is beautiful. To love and hate is painful.

It's Nice To Have Someone In Your Life

It's Nice To Have Someone In Your Life that Makes you smile even when they're not around.

It's Hard When You Really Want To Help

It's Hard When You Really Want To Help Someone But All They Do Is Reject You.

It's Hard To Smile When You've Been Hurt

It's Hard To Smile When You've Been Hurt So Many Times By The People You Love.

It's Best To Be Honest

It's Best To Be Honest, To Make The Most Of What You Have, To Be Happy With Simple Pleasures,and to have courage when things are difficult.

It's Almost Like You Had It Planned

It's Almost Like You Had It Planned. Like You Smiled And Shook My Hand And Said, "I'm About To Screw you over...."

It's A Wonder

It's A Wonder, How People Find Time To Hate When Life Is Too Short To Love.

It Was The Only Kiss The Love I Have Ever Known

It Was The Only Kiss The Love I Have Ever Known....

Life is like a goalkeeper, people only remember the shot you missed.

It Is Not How Much We Have

It Is Not How Much We Have, But How Much We Enjoy That Makes Happiness.

It Is Hard To Fly

It Is Hard To Fly When Something is Weighing You Down.

In Life , You Can Only Give What You Have

In Life , You Can Only Give What You Have, and if you don't love and appreciale your sell worth, the factis, no one will trully love and respect you.

A true story from
-Ashna Anne Philip

That night he was here, that man who knew and understood me and yeah – loved me for who exactly I am ..Holding me tight , afraid that there was someone out in the dark waiting to take me away from him .. his lips were steady as he said "baby .. no matter what, I am always there for you , you know that?"
"uh-uh" I replied confused. "And do you know that I have loved you so much more than what you’d ever imagined love is, and that it can neither be measured nor weighed?"

"yes – I do know"

I looked into his eyes, his eyes never leaving mine .. I knew there was something he wanted me know .. just my ears he did not want it to travel from my nerves to brain and ask him cross-questions .. I wanted to say him it was all right .. and whatever was his problem we both could conquer it down .. but I decided that I would never dodge him to say it to me .. I wanted him-self to say it to me - at least when he thought he could trust me on it .

His eyes were weary and tired .. I felt that nothing of him was the same .. although he was the same old Dan .. there was something missing in him ---- the way he touched me said it all , every day after the day’s work he’d come on in and sit on the couch , removing his formal shirt and flexing his muscles he’d say ..
"Ash ..I need a women like oxygen" saying this he’d fall on me and kiss me.. the type of kiss that could heal pain away and turn sorrow into joy . He was all but everything an ideal women would have ever dreamed off ..and I've always considered myself lucky for having seen the best laugh in the world .

Today was another day and holding me tight was another Dan , at least not the man I've loved for years.
I waited patiently for his lips to activate and at last he blurted out partially dropping tears and said something I’d never wanted to hear from his lips , he asked for a BREAK UP . I swallowed some oxygen and asked "A what Dan?" hoping that he’d never said that.

"Oh please Ash don’t make me say that again .. I know you have heard me and that’s all I want for the moment " he said facing down, I felt that I were shot right through my chest .. The word he said pierced into my heart making a hole visible inside my mind. I felt the world’s one complete revolution taking place in that moment . I wanted him to say that he was just lying about It, instead looking elsewhere he said "I’d found my dream girl .. she is beautiful , she loves me and I love her .. Sorry Ash , but am totally into her." His voice was shaky and I were totally numb the blood flow inside my body had stopped, I didn't feel anything because I had lost my feelings .. my senses, right then I were a something that could breathe but had no emotions .. no life . I lifted my hands and kept’em on his cheeks .. it was cold , and I said, "Tell me you don’t mean it Dan , I know this ain't you .. not the one I've loved , please kiss and tell me that everything before five seconds was just an illusion" .. he shut his lashes down and began to cry , he pressed his lips on not wanting to cry more .

"please" I said "I’d go out of your life but please don’t cry , I can never withstand that." He looked at me, tears swelling in his eyes .. I said , "Although you can lie to me now , I know that you can and will always love me , or let me take it that way .. and my house is just few lanes from yours , the door wouldn't close at your face .. It is always open , just wanted you to remember that" not wanting to see his tears , I walked straight to my car and went home.

six months later , after my final semester I’d got this letter from Dan ,
To mine in Earth ,
Dear Ashlyn .. Hope you ain't mad at me , although I am mad at no one but myself. Do you remember that I had loved you before? well I just wanted you to know that I still love you and that I would continue the same love in future too .. That day was nothing but a play in which we both had played the main roles .. I had to lie to you because I wanted you to forget me , because my live days could only be predicted by god .. it was in the hands of my doctors,. in glucose and hospital beds I lived .. my hair has been shaved off .. my muscles have all died inside myself .. my blood has been infected with various macromolecules that cuts down by bodily systems .. I've lost my weight .. my attitude and everything through which anyone could judge me from the outside .. but there is one thing that grew the entire time .. one thing the virus couldn't take away from me .. one thing I pleaded not to be taken from me .. my love for you , that is the only thing that grew even through my chemo and radiation sections. Now I just wanted you to know that you have been the perfect girl of my dreams, the one that had given me the colors of my life when the entire world was dark .. whenever you do feel lonely shut your lashes down and I’d be there in front of you .. holding you tight like your guardian angel .. till you find your perfect man .. There is nothing to worry because time heals pain and you’ll surely get on with your life .

P.S I will always love you , till the last breath of this universe.
From yours in heaven.

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

heart wallpapers for desktop

heart wallpapers for desktop

Don't Let Mistakes Ruin A Friendship

Don't Let Mistakes Ruin A Friendship, Put Them Behind You And Move On, And Let Your Friendship Get Stronger

Don't Cry Because Someone Left You

Don't Cry Because Someone Left You, Smile Because They Just Gave You A Chance To Find SOmeone Better.

Don't Overuse Your Heart

Don't Overuse Your Heart Trying To Love The One Who You Think He Or She Loves You Too..
you should save the best part of you for the person who deserves you and deserves to be loved by you.

Don't Criticize Me For My Flaws

Don't Criticize Me For My Flaws When You Can't Even Recognize Your Own.

Distance Means So Little

Distance Means So Little, when someone means so much

Love is speechless , love is god.

HATE CRIME synopsis, trailer, and posters.

HATE CRIME is a film that's flown under my radar up until I received a press release from its director, James Cullen Bressack. This home invasion/found footage flick has been making its rounds at festivals, and creating some waves. Apparently, it is so controversial that the film was nearly banned in the UK, and is currently having trouble finding distribution, so don't plan on seeing it just yet, unless it is scheduled at a film fest.

The Synopsis:
"A Jewish family, just arrived in a new neighborhood, are recording their youngest son's birthday celebrations on video when their home is suddenly invaded by a bunch of crystal-meth-crazed neo-nazi lunatics… "

More About the Film and Director:
"Fans have eagerly awaited release details on HATE CRIME, although there are still none yet we do have some posters for the film!

Attached are 5 official posters for the critically acclaimed AWARD WINNING found footage home invasion film HATE CRIME. This is the second feature film by 20 year old James Cullen Bressack, his first being the Amazon horror best seller MY PURE JOY which was released last year. Despite its name, Hate Crime is a labor of love from a dedicated group of people looking to make something different. Hate Crime is a violent, realistic portrayal of one of our worst nightmares, being attacked in our home. The movie has been extremely well received by over 80+ reviewers, including some of the biggest reviewers in the horror film community.

This film has fought a lot of controversy due to it's extreme content, almost being banned in the UK, being pulled off the screens at festivals before even showing, due to content and theatre management not willing to show the movie the festival booked, and has faced some trouble finding distribution since the shooting in CT.

We actually lost a distribution deal that was on the table due to that horrible tragedy. As Sinfullcelluloid.com put it: "...the film has won several awards and has a strong following. It has over 80 great reviews and no distribution. They even had an offer hold off the table the last minute." for the full article about HATE CRIME's shocking distribution woes please visit: SinfulCellulloid.com"

I'm personally not a huge fan of the found footage genre, and truthfully, I haven't seen many home invasion flicks, so this isn't something I'd actively seek out. Perhaps the trailer will change my mind?

The trailer mainly consists of ballyhoo... it doesn't offer up a solid reason for me to want to see the film. If anything, it is pretty much saying "WE DARE YOU TO SIT THROUGH THE FULL 73 MINUTES OF THIS MOVIE!" I've glanced around, and many of the reviews are positive (even the people who didn't like this movie have good things to say), so even though it doesn't seem like my cup of tea, if the opportunity presented itself, I'd give HATE CRIME a shot.

Finally, here are the posters that were just released for the film...